Do’s and don’ts for a girl while dating an Indian boy

Indian men are a little bit complex. You must have heard several platitudes about them and most of them are true. You can never understand them fully.

If you are dating and Indian man, your Hindi dating will have a whole different story. It can be tricky and dangerous at the same time.

 

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Dating an Indian man has some challenges and when you both are from a different cultural background than challenges can be more. The objective of Hindi Dating is to have an engaging conversation and to know your partner better.

In a relationship, there are some general things which are entitled as Dos and Don’ts. Those should be kept in mind while dating an Indian boy.

Do’s

Indian boys are often concerned about the dresses of girls. Dress accordingly to the local standards of the place. If you are going to Goa with him, you can wear shorts and tank tops but same is not applicable in small cities, as Goa is much more modern than other places. If you wear such things at these places, you will attract the wrong sort of attention that will be not acceptable by Indian boys.

Ask about his hobbies, interests, his taste for movies/books etc. This type of conversation will help you, people, to open up.  If you can make him enjoy talking, pat your back as you’d strike the best chord.

Don’t hesitate if he asks about your life, career plans, family etc. If you do, it will make him so uncomfortable in front of you. He will never ask about your life.

An Indian boy possesses protective nature for his girl. Feel safe with him and don’t worry.  He will protect you anyway. Show trust on him. It will make him feel good.

As Indian culture is full of traditions, Indian boys also have traditionally beliefs. Do something of Indian culture like sometimes wear traditional dresses etc. It will impress him.

Don’ts

Don’t get irritated if his mother starts calling him around 10:00 pm. Most Indian young boys live with their parents. So it is expected that his mother will worry about him and call him to make sure that he is okay.

Don’t expect to be introduced to his family very soon. Indian parents have typical thoughts about love marriage. They don’t accept easily if their son has any girlfriend of another culture.

Don’t be shocked if people stare at both of you. Interracial couples are uncommon in India.

Don’t ask him about his past relationships too much. It can turn his mood off. Don’t start any topic of your past boyfriends while you are dating.  Don’t ask too many questions to him. He will not like a one-way conversation. Have a relaxed, natural conversation. It will make your date wonderful. Don’t ask too much about his professional life.

Everyone doesn’t have the same beliefs and attitudes. Attitude and perspective towards any subject vary according to culture. It’s all about cultural differences. Take time and give time. Have patience! Don’t do anything in hurry. Your actions can be misconceived.

Pay heed to these dos and don’ts while dating an Indian boy. It will surely help you to make your dates perfect.

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Do’s and Don’ts for a boy while dating an Indian girl

There is actually no rulebook to define the do’s and don’ts of dating an Indian girl but there are few things that you should keep in your mind while Hindi Dating. Pay heed to them to make your date the perfect one. There are some doings that will impress her while some others can destroy your date which you should never do. Figure out these deeds by reading this article:

 

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The first thing to do is making her feel comfortable and special. Do special things to make her happy. Show your care towards her. Indian girls really like the guys who are possessive about them. Accept her for what she is. Do not expect her to be fake and put on makeup every time just because she is with. You should also show her your real personality. Don’t be fake just to impress her. In Hindi Dating, there is nothing more relaxing for a man than looking into her eyes and be the real personality, and for a woman, there is nothing more adorable than his guy being himself.

The venue is one of the most important aspects of any date. And when it comes to Indian girls, they really like decorated places and surprises. Decorate the place with flowers and balloons Arrange candle light dinner and give her lovely surprise. Believe me, she will really be happy!
Talk about your past relationships if you had any. Opening up about the past makes women comfortable to speak about theirs too.  There is nothing wrong in this. After all that was passed! But remember don’t overdo this. Enjoy your present relationship instead.

Be the guy who is confident enough about his looks. Don’t dress like a party clown. Just be casual. It’s a date, not a party!

An Indian girl faces some problems in her house as some Indian families are conservative for girls till date. If this is the same problem with her also, then try to understand her problems. Make her reach home before it gets dark. Don’t force her to hang out at night.

It’s fine to be little nervous, but it’s really not okay to do weird things because of nervousness. You need not try very hard to impress her. Be normal like you always do. Try to be a gentleman. Be conversational and casual. Your date should not seem like a job interview.

Do not ask her what dishes she can make while you are dating her. Don’t ask recipe of any dish on your date for heaven’s sake! They are not meant to do all these chores only. Instead, ask her about her career aspirations and dreams.

Do not get too personal. Don’t ever ask her if she is a virgin. It really not matters even if you are still. Trust me! Virginity is over- rated.

Always respect her individuality. She is a person with her own opinions, thoughts, beliefs, dreams and aspirations. Don’t underestimate her. She is the girl of the modern era and can do anything that you can do! Sometimes it can be better as well.

If she is not comfortable around a lot of people, avoid crowded places. Try not to drink in front of her if she is a typical Indian girl. Avoid bars, nothing worse can happen than messing up your date and letting her carry you home.

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Dating tips for dating in a social media generation

The world has become a small platform. While sitting in the privacy of your room, with your lappy in your lap and a mug of coffee in your hand, you now have the power to roam around the world in a matter of minutes, rather seconds! This is the power of the internet. What started as a form of convenience has now taken over our lives. From making a simple class project to making new friends, all aspects of our lives are dependent on it. Even our relationships have been affected by it in present times. With the coming up of social networking sites like Facebook, Tinder, twitter etc., today’s busy generation finds it convenient to form relations with unknown people, in the comfort of their home. It has, to an extent, taken the form of addiction and has definitely become a big thing in the USA dating arena. From being in a relationship to getting engaged and married, everything has to be announced on social networking sites. Anything otherwise is taken as bad social etiquettes! So with the social media taking over our dating scene, there are certain things we must keep in mind while going out with someone we met over the net:

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  • Research about the person thoroughly: The first and most important thing to do is to research about a person thoroughly before meeting him or her in person. It is very easy to create fake social media ID’s and fool people. Only when you are very sure about the person at the other end, fix up the date.
  • Be alert on the first date: When you meet an online friend for the first time for a date, be very alert. If possible, then tag along with a friend. Make sure to tell people close to you about whom you are meeting and where are you meeting him or her. It’s better to be safe than sorry.
  • Don’t become an online stalker: Once you have met the person are sure about him or her, then sit back and relax. There is just no need to keep a track of his timeline all the time. Don’t stalk him online at any cost!
  • Don’t make your timeline a bulletin board: OK, with god’s grace, you have been lucky in love and have found an apt life partner online. But this certainly does not mean that you need to announce it to the whole world via your Facebook page! This way, not only are you letting the whole world have a sneak peek into your private life, but also making a joke out of yourself.
  • Never breakup online: There may be chances that your relationship doesn’t work out. In such a case, make sure to break up in person, in a dignified way. Don’t make it a public announcement by putting it up as a status on social media. This will not only ruin the reputation of the other half but yours as well.

With changing times, it is better to accept and embrace the change. However, it is important to keep certain things in check, it’s better to be safe than sorry!

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Top dating advice to women from men

Dating is one of the most fun aspects of a relationship. It is that phase of your life when you are young and free from all the hardships and challenges that life might put you across in future. It is a time when you can freely meet new people, go out with them and get to know them more. Who knows, one of these people might just turn out to be your soul mate with whom you are destined to spend the rest of your lives! But hey, till then, enjoy yourself to the fullest! When we talk in particular about the USA dating scene, both the men and women stand on an equal pedestal, with both having the right to choose the guy or girl they want to date. However, since time immortal, there are certain stereotypes that get tagged along with dating, with different rules for men and women. While it is believed that it is the man’s role to be the protector, it is the woman who should be pampered. But have we ever heard the man’s side of the story? Well, it is high time that we do. We went around and made an ultimate collection of tips and pieces of advice that Men have for their women counterparts when they take her out on a date:

  • Be honest: Men really like honest women. So when out on a date, please be yourself. For example, you don’t need to wear a dress that you are uncomfortable instead of your comfy pair of jeans, just to make an impression.  Never try to be something that you are not when out on a date.
  • Be open about your choices: Kindly tell your partner openly about your choice of restaurant, movies, food, likes, dislikes etc. It helps men be better prepared for dates.
  • Be a good listener: well, we fully know that women like to talk, but we men might have something to say as well. So kindly listen to what we have to say as well. At times, being a good listener can lead to better things in future.
  • Don’t read between lines: Men are simple people, who generally don’t mince their words. They call a spade, a spade. So don’t bother to read between lines and try to find double meanings behind what your date says. Respect his opinion.
  • Don’t over-research: this applies especially when you are going out for the first time. Please don’t over research about your date like his food likings, drink preferences etc. While it may seem flattering at first, but might scare him later. You might even be labeled a stalker!
  • Offer to pay: Women loved being called empowered, but when it comes to paying the bill, they forget all about financial independence and allow the men to pay. This is grossly wrong. We are not telling you to fight over the cheques, but at least offer to pay. If not fully, then at least offer to share the date expenses.

So there you have it ladies! Advice direct from the horse’s mouth! Follow these tips and you’ll be the most popular girl in town! Enjoy!

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Things to keep in mind while dating a girl elder to you

Dating an older woman is a rage these days. For many women above 35, they’ve never felt more coveted by men in their late twenties or early 30s. There are many reasons why men seek to date a girl elder to them. A naïve man will fall for the cougar concept, wink-wink idea and the old elbow-jabbing though that they are more likely to pay for everything. Well, that’s not true as these women have brains and have chosen this space for a reason too. A smart man doesn’t enter into a relationship due to such obscure reasons.

India Dating has come of age and men are seeking to date elder women. Many might have dated women of their age or below, many might had sour relations or trust issues before, but this is a completely new space with bright, new prospects. It’s exciting because the level of camaraderie won’t start as the way it used to. It won’t be cheeky or tacky, but once the dice rolls, I bet there’ll be no looking as the bond can surpass all your previous ones and exceed every expectation. So here are a few things that you need to keep in mind as you set forth to date an elder woman.

 

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  • Remember she’s got her own life: So, don’t try to dupe her by fantasy words, or bluff, or try to impose your notions on her. If you gel well, these things can come naturally and it’s a natural amalgam. She has her career, her own friends, money, and by all means her apartment and car. You mustn’t do anything to show that you’re in a hurry to rob her that way, or you have come for her resources. A woman always likes attention, sincerity, and effort from her man. Make sure you don’t act in haste even if you have that slight avarice running down your brain cells.
  • Just another date: Try to make her comfortable. Don’t conceive an opinion that if she is well-off or affluent, she will take the initiative. Nothing changes really in the world of dating. As the man, you need to pull back the chair and ask her to sit down politely. Put the drinks in her glass and start talking smartly. If you show apprehension or fear, it is not good. There are women who try to make you comfortable, but you can sure take care of that in advance.
  • She can hold herself and perform: On many cases, women have bitter fallouts or past voids that have scarred them. If you know about them, no need to sympathize as she doesn’t like that fact. Rather, help her you to think that’s all past and the times were bad. Right now, you are the moment. Don’t bring back past glimpses or try to dig it up, or try to unravel things which she is not comfortable at. At least, spare your date for all these things. You need to know that she is matured enough and achieved to shun all those problems on her own. She doesn’t require a troubleshooter. Volunteering for that job can backfire, howsoever good the intention might be.

By all means, she is probably wiser than you and more matured. Don’t tell her things that she already knows or try to take her for a trip. That will spell disaster. In India Dating, make sure you don’t hurry up on anything. Just talk, dine, drink and nurture your camaraderie.

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How to manage finances while dating a girl

Dating a girl has not been that easy for the regular guy. Let’s keep it simple. Those who are affluent and filthy rich will find the dating thing a great time passes or pastime even. Honestly, these guys don’t have to work for their resources or think of the means to achieve. They are either born with that money or don’t have to work for that. More often than not, the focus on finances is not there. People who can get them easily will not batter an eyelid to continue with their dating spree, with many girls.

But, for guys who are not born with such resources or who don’t have that affluent background, galvanizing your finances is a very important thing. In your approach to India Dating, you need to see that your job and business is sound or good enough to support your expenses. Then only, you won’t feel financially shattered in the middle of a date or in some work endeavor.

 

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  • Plan your expenses: This is the very first directive. You need to treat the date as another platform of expense. Being honest with you is very important here. You need to know your own condition and capacity of spending. If you a monthly income that supports hangouts in post restaurants and clubs, then all fine. But, if the income is shaky or there are intermittent earnings in bulk, you need to be a little cautious. Planning your expenses in accordance with your income is always the right thing. It applies more here.
  • Fix your fixtures: After fixing the first directive, your aim should be to select the place of date or the places to go. There are certain clubs, lounges, and discotheques that compel you to dish you enormous amounts of money. When you have affirmed your financial condition and ground reality, you’ll know which places to go. This confidence will only come when you have assessed your life in proper terms. There’s no need to hurry or copy others. It’s your life and it’s you who is dating.
  • Know the girl: Make sure she isn’t a leech. There are some girls out there whose sole purpose is to drain you financially. Let’s admit it; you have many such cases happening around you. When you are planning your finances, this is one thing you need to be careful about. You need to talk to the girl before and know about her. A little knowledge about the likes and preferences and the to-do list is most important here.
  • Don’t’ borrow but save: More often than not, there are guys who end up borrowing from their friends to impress their lady love or date. Sometimes, they even steal. This is horrendous and must be avoided at any cost. This is not a litmus test for you and you don’t need to go overboard for your date.

The best thing is to save certain amounts each month and set a target. That target is the amount you’ll spend or use in your dating. You can date more than one girl but you won’t exceed the monetary number. This dedication is important.

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Do’s and Don’ts for a boy while dating a Mumbai girl

Mumbai girls are a sight for sore eyes, they are pleasant to see! The credit for this goes to their dressing sense. They have a cool attitude which attracts the guys so much. Mumbai girls love to hang out. They aren’t the typical “home – loving” creatures. They are always happy to visit the malls, spend their day at the beach or even with a small pizza dinner. Mumbai Dating with a Mumbai girl is the perfect combination which can make any boy’s day memorable.

 

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Mumbai Dating sometimes needs vigilance as the lifestyle of the Mumbai girls cannot easily match with any guy. Whether the relation is new or old or you are madly in love, every relationship has its boundaries. Each person is different from one another. There are some general things that are entitled as relationship dos and don’ts.

Now we will discuss some of the Do’s and Don’ts for a boy while dating a Mumbai girl-

Do’s

On one of the first few dates, cook on your own for her. Mumbai girls enjoy going out for dinner, but romancing at home over a meal cooked especially for her, will add your bonus points in her book.

On the starting dates, always step up to pay the bill rather than making an excuse to leave the table.

Do something spontaneous for her. Bring a bouquet for her without any occasion, leave a little note on her car as you are passing from there on your way to work.

Mumbai girls love outings. Plan some surprise outings for her. She will definitely feel happy and special.

Don’ts

Never ask for a kiss on the starting dates.  Asking for a kiss very early only makes a man look like a passionate guy. If she agrees it could only be out of politeness, while on the inside her attraction meter will be saying, “No”.

Don’t ask her for a date because Mumbai girls like to be with a man who is a leader, not someone who asks her permission. Approach her by simply saying “We should hang out… what’s your number?”

If you are on the date with a Mumbai girl, give her undivided attention. Don’t text your mates or keep yourself busy on phone by surfing social networking sites. Being glued to your phone all the time on a date is just considered as being rude.

Do not try to prove that you are a great boyfriend every time. If you will do this, she will constantly compare you with her Ex that may hurt you.

Girls do not like overprotective boys. Try not to be too protective. There is a fine line between showing your care and being over jealous.

If you are with the girl whom you are dating, she should be the only female on your mind. Don’t text other girls when spending alone time.

These are the tips you should give heed while dating a Mumbai girl. Keep these tips in the mind and rock your dates. Happy dating!

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Do’s and Don’ts for a girl dating a Delhi boy

Delhi Boys! Our very own rustic Greek gods in the making! With their mere looks, charm and chivalry, they can make any girl go weak on her knees! And to top the looks, they are intellectual and soft spoken at the same time. So if you have been lucky in love and have a boyfriend from Delhi, the congratulations girl! You have made your mark on the Delhi dating scene. But hey, if you have something good, you have got to nurture and take care of it well. The same thing applies for relationships, especially if you are dating a boy from Delhi. So here we have for you a list of certain do’s and don’ts, to make sure that your relationship never hits the rough waters:

 

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Do’s:

  • Compliment him: Making relationships work is not a one sided thing. It takes two to pull a relationship through. If you are giving your cent percent to your relationship, even he’s trying to do the same. Compliment him for that from time to time. Not only will it make him feel good, it will also strengthen your bond.
  • Listen to him: We girls have to admit that we are talkative by nature. But there are times, especially when you are dating someone, to listen. So be that good listener and hear him out. His opinions matter too.
  • Be yourself: Delhi boys absolutely adore girls who are honest and speak the truth. Be that girl. Don’t be hesitant in sharing your opinion about things. Be yourself.
  • Offer to dutch in or pay: though the presumption goes that a Delhi guy’s ego may get hurt if you offer to pay the bill, still it is a good idea to offer at least. This not only will leave a good impression but also highlight the fact that you are a self-dependent and self-respecting woman, who should not be taken for granted.
  • Let him go out for boys’ night outs: He maybe your boyfriend but he has other friends too. Let him freely have that time out with his good old buddies. He’ll love you for that!

Don’ts:

  • Never make it all about yourself: Never ever make the relationship all about yourself. Never make him feel that it is only you who is responsible for making the relationship work. If you are playing your part, so is he.
  • Never interfere in his space: It is most important to give space to your boyfriend. Don’t be that clingy and irritating girlfriend, who keeps a track on all her man’s movement. This will hamper your relation tremendously!
  • Don’t act insecure: Trust your man. Don’t act insecure when he is in the company of other females when in office or parties. You are the love of his life. Acting insecure for no solid reason will affect your relationship negatively.
  • Don’t be over-possessive: the worst thing you can do to your relationship is to be over-possessive of your partner. This one thing alone can end your relationship for good.

The relationship is all about building rather that owning. Keep this in mind and enjoy your life with you Delhi gabru! All the best!

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Do’s and Don’ts for a boy dating a Delhi girl

It not impossible, but definitely very tough to impress a girl from Delhi. And if you have been able to do so, then congratulations sir! You have definitely made a mark on the Delhi dating scenario. Enjoy this as the most memorable time of your life! But dude, please don’t do anything stupid to make her go away. The last thing you want in your life is an angry woman, that too from Delhi. So, if you are one of those lucky chaps who doesn’t want to lose out on his dilliwali girlfriend, we have here some do’s and don’ts for you:

 

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Do’s:

  • Pamper her: pamper her by taking her to movies and favorite eating joints on holidays and weekends. Try showering her with small gifts of special occasions.
  • Respect her opinion: Delhi women are generally practical in their thoughts and outspoken about their opinions. Respect you girlfriend for the same.
  • Give her time: We know it’s tough to juggle jobs and the personal front on office days. Still, try and take out time to attend to the phone calls and reply to her messages when possible.
  • Let her make independent decisions: Give her the liberty to take her own decisions. After all, she’s a mature adult who was taking her own decisions even before you became a part of her life.
  • Respect her family and friends: Give due respect to her family members and friends whenever you meet them. This will surely earn you some extra brownie points!

Don’ts:

  • Never interfere in her space: Make sure to give her space in the relationship. Never try to pile on your own commitments on her just because she is your girlfriend. Respect her privacy.
  • Never check her messages: This is a big no-no! Even if your girlfriend gives you the liberty to use her phone, still don’t do it! It is a kind of a trust test she might be putting you through. If you check, you lose her trust forever.
  • Never try to suppress her independent streak: Just because you are seeing her does not give you the right to take away her independence. Never ever try to make her do things your way, putting your ego first. Delhi girls are fiercely independent. By forcing her to do things, you are sure to lose her.
  • Never speak lowly of her job: most Delhi girls are working individuals who take pride in earning their own living. Hence, make it a point to never speak lowly of her job or the work she does.
  • Never speak against her family: Delhi girls share very strong bonds with their family members and friends. So never ever, in a million years say anything against their families or friends. If you ever commit such a blunder, even by mistake, then you are out! Period!

Follow these simple do’s and don’ts while dating a Delhi and be rest assured, that you are in for a smooth sail ahead. Wish you all the luck!

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Jewelry essentials for a working Tamil woman after marriage

Jewelry is an important thing for a Tamil bride. In fact without jewelry, a Tamil bride doesn’t look like a bride. Bridal jewelry enhances the appearance of a Tamil bride’s wedding attire. It adds extra charm to a bride. As per Tamil Matrimony, brides have to wear lot of jewelry to get an extraordinary look on their wedding day. Not just on wedding day, but it is essential for Tamil newlywed brides to wear jewelry on every occasion. Even in the family get together and small family functions, a newlywed Tamil bride has to wear jewelry on traditional attire.

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Working Tamil women also have to wear jewelry after their marriage because it is a traditional belief that jewelry signifies that a woman is married. Being conservative, Tamil people mostly believe in traditional views and concepts so they also think the same way. They have made it essential for the newlywed Tamil brides to wear jewelry even while they are working outside. Some jewelry essentials for a working Tamil woman after marriage are as follows-

  • Bangles– Bangles are essential to be worn by brides at the time of marriage and even after that. So being a working Tamil married woman, you have to keep on wearing your red and yellow bangles all the time especially if you are newlywed. A set of bangles must always be in your hands all the time. According to Tamil Matrimony, red bangles serve as the sign of marriage for a Tamil woman.
  • Earrings– According to Tamil traditions and views, a married Tamil woman has to wear earrings whenever she attends any function and whenever she has to go anywhere out. It means, while going to your office you have to wear beautiful earrings and look like a true Tamil married woman. Mostly Tamil married women prefer to wear gold earrings that add something extra in their appearance.
  • Necklace– Earrings and necklaces go hand in hand with each other. Being a married woman, you are supposed to wear a simple or heavy necklace while going to office and while attending family functions. Being a newlywed bride, you are going to represent your husband’s family wherever you go therefore you have to carry right kind of attire along with right kind of jewelry on your body. To represent yourself in the best way at your workplace, you should wear gold necklace with golden earrings.

Being a representative of your new family, you have to look beautiful and elegant all the time. You can wear whichever type of jewelry you like to wear to make yourself feel like a married woman. Everyone appreciates a newlywed bride who wears beautiful jewelry on gorgeous attire. If you want to get appreciation by people at your workplace, you should wear right kind of jewelry on traditional outfits that are usually worn by Tamil newlywed brides. It is compulsory for you to wear jewelry as you are newlywed bride but it not compulsory to wear heavy jewelry all the time. So you can wear simple jewelry while going to your workplace.

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