Indian men are a little bit complex. You must have heard several platitudes about them and most of them are true. You can never understand them fully.
If you are dating and Indian man, your Hindi dating will have a whole different story. It can be tricky and dangerous at the same time.
Dating an Indian man has some challenges and when you both are from a different cultural background than challenges can be more. The objective of Hindi Dating is to have an engaging conversation and to know your partner better.
In a relationship, there are some general things which are entitled as Dos and Don’ts. Those should be kept in mind while dating an Indian boy.
Indian boys are often concerned about the dresses of girls. Dress accordingly to the local standards of the place. If you are going to Goa with him, you can wear shorts and tank tops but same is not applicable in small cities, as Goa is much more modern than other places. If you wear such things at these places, you will attract the wrong sort of attention that will be not acceptable by Indian boys.
Ask about his hobbies, interests, his taste for movies/books etc. This type of conversation will help you, people, to open up. If you can make him enjoy talking, pat your back as you’d strike the best chord.
Don’t hesitate if he asks about your life, career plans, family etc. If you do, it will make him so uncomfortable in front of you. He will never ask about your life.
An Indian boy possesses protective nature for his girl. Feel safe with him and don’t worry. He will protect you anyway. Show trust on him. It will make him feel good.
As Indian culture is full of traditions, Indian boys also have traditionally beliefs. Do something of Indian culture like sometimes wear traditional dresses etc. It will impress him.
Don’t get irritated if his mother starts calling him around 10:00 pm. Most Indian young boys live with their parents. So it is expected that his mother will worry about him and call him to make sure that he is okay.
Don’t expect to be introduced to his family very soon. Indian parents have typical thoughts about love marriage. They don’t accept easily if their son has any girlfriend of another culture.
Don’t be shocked if people stare at both of you. Interracial couples are uncommon in India.
Don’t ask him about his past relationships too much. It can turn his mood off. Don’t start any topic of your past boyfriends while you are dating. Don’t ask too many questions to him. He will not like a one-way conversation. Have a relaxed, natural conversation. It will make your date wonderful. Don’t ask too much about his professional life.
Everyone doesn’t have the same beliefs and attitudes. Attitude and perspective towards any subject vary according to culture. It’s all about cultural differences. Take time and give time. Have patience! Don’t do anything in hurry. Your actions can be misconceived.
Pay heed to these dos and don’ts while dating an Indian boy. It will surely help you to make your dates perfect.
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